Monday, June 6, 2011

Ailey's status of continued financial intimidation......

Financial intimidation, my monthly salary is stop, rental income is stop. My credit card frozen.

Is this allowed?
Is it fair?
Is this to be tolerated?

No. To all the above. 
Yet, this is what I w as to go through, facilitated by law enforcer.  
Over 20+ years through 24/7, working and budgeting, the sacrifices, I made, has yielded good result with a successful business, and the buildup of equity of land and house, plus starting children education funds. All is gone or un accessible. Gone as it was done fraudulently, unbelievably when it is facilitated by professional CPA and law enforcer. 

Is it possible?
Am I bewildered by all this? 

Yes, to the above, sadly. 
This is what happen to me.................

What could I do, to help myself to set things right?
Could I?

I could not answer these questions........I am struggling still trying to help myself to set things right............and I do not know if I could, as I am still finding our if I could...............................




Ailey's start to take stock of what has happen.......

Have you seen the movie, "Pursuit of Happiness". The story line seems to be based from a real life of someone, who is truly down and out due to circumstances. There were many scenes in the movie which I could empathize with.

Here are some of it...
1.Family structure destroyed, of course compared to how my family were destroyed it is like night and day. My family were destroyed by a "sick man", who led a sick lifestyle in the background. Children and I, on daily basis were subjected to "this sick man" abuse.

2.Homeless, never know if we would have roof over our head day to day. We were made to choose safety away from our residence, we were liken to refugee / homeless four, on the run.

Seeing the movie brought me back, and I am amaze how I did made it this far. It also brought to the surface how revolting the behavior of the "sick man".

I am fighting not to take stock of what has happen to children and I. As I am not ready yet, there is still so much I need to do, to ensure financial stability before I could start my stock taking processes.

It is very exhausting to go through the past. For now, I do not need to. Do I ever need to?