Background.
When I made the decision to remove myself and my 3 kids from the grasp of my abuser, my ex husband. Protection order I had to pay for cost $10K to law enforcer. Then the Protection Order was compromise by law enforcers.
When I made the decision to remove myself and my 3 kids from the grasp of my abuser, my ex husband. Protection order I had to pay for cost $10K to law enforcer. Then the Protection Order was compromise by law enforcers.
Throughout all this, our abuser continue to reign abuse and taunt us, showing how strong he is, as he uses the system to manipulate. The law enforcer did nothing to protect us. The abuser kept filing false affidavit, with the cooperation of paid law enforcer.
The social issue?
In my case, the justice system in NZ, because there exist a very strong circle of the "old boys school" law enforcer gets away with not enforcing the law against criminals. Implication is, it is impossible to get away from being a victim. Law enforcer in my case are forcing myself and my kids to be re victimized.
In my current situation, as a result, I am representing myself in the family court. I am standing up, and saying "NO". I refuse to remain as a victim and I refuse be forced to be re victimized.
That is the reason why kids and I ended up having to re invent our life in Queenstown by ourselves.
My perspective, society awareness need to be brought up to speed, and law enforcer need to take responsibility. The misuse of power need to be address.
The social issue?
In my case, the justice system in NZ, because there exist a very strong circle of the "old boys school" law enforcer gets away with not enforcing the law against criminals. Implication is, it is impossible to get away from being a victim. Law enforcer in my case are forcing myself and my kids to be re victimized.
In my current situation, as a result, I am representing myself in the family court. I am standing up, and saying "NO". I refuse to remain as a victim and I refuse be forced to be re victimized.
That is the reason why kids and I ended up having to re invent our life in Queenstown by ourselves.
My perspective, society awareness need to be brought up to speed, and law enforcer need to take responsibility. The misuse of power need to be address.
