Dalai Lama said February's quake was a "tragedy beyond control" and it was his duty "as a friend of the city" to visit Christchurch."When such tragedy beyond our control happens, then faith does happen."Christchurch residents now needed to "build a new life and a new future"."In spite of tragedy, keep your self-confidence and work hard to build a new home, a new society and a new city,'' he said."Let tragedy transform into inner strength, determination and self-confidence."
I say, since I took control to get out of the tragedy of living with an abuser who is a bully, a deviant to me and my 3 kids, it is my duty as the only parent to my 3 kids, not to allow victimization to happen to the four of us.
Having lived through more than 20+ years myself being abused and bullied, whilst my 3 kids, it had been all their life, it is the only thing they know, it need to stop. It is hard to have any faith in law enforcers. Our experience so far with our tragedy of trying to stay safe, has been plague with so outreaching intimidation and bullying that affects us still daily, as we struggle to re build our new life minus the abuse.
We have develop self-cofidence in ourselves. We have also discover what inner strength we possess.
This still does not alleviate us being constantly subjected to being intimidated by the abuser, facilitated by law enforcer.
Today, I had to deal with my complaint made to the NEU, when I found out, all my shares in the companies has been fraudulently "stolen" with falsified paper works facilitated by CPA and law enforcer by my abuser and bully of an ex husband.
This is how it is, the destruction I could not control.................I could only but deal with it, until the next infliction..........sometime it seems like I am still a victim struggling to get free...............
